Elegant women are known to be women worth admiring, a person you look up to, and they are. However, that doesn’t mean they have a perfect life or that they got where they are easy. There is a lot they are not telling you.
What makes a woman Elegant?
An elegant woman has plenty of traits you can perceive without any difficulty. Still, it’s her mysterious movements and decisions that cannot help you but make you wonder what’s going on inside her head, what’s she thinking, and what her real intention is.
They can be mysterious and secretive because of many reasons. However, Secrets sometimes are more than hiding the truth. They are like a way of protection, a way to protect your personal space and stability. Mystery always comes with secrets, but they don’t necessarily have to mean something negative.
1- She follows her own sense of fashion
Classy women don’t follow the latest trends. They just add some trendy pieces to their own style. It’s about keeping your essence without being too old-fashioned.
Every woman must wear what makes her feel confident and embraces her body perfectly. Unfortunately, trends are not for everyone, and not everyone can look good in every trend (If you do, congratulations, you have a blessed body).
Classy women know how to wear clothes that fit their bodies accordingly, pieces that keep their bodies and faces in harmony. They enhanced their best features while slightly camouflaging their insecurities.
The key’s to know what’s your body type and, what looks good on you, and what doesn’t.
2- She acts confident even if she has a lot of insecurities
Acting confident it’s, indeed, really important. Even if you have a lot of physical and mental insecurities, you should always act like you are WORTH IT.
If you think every woman who dresses and talks elegantly doesn’t have lots of insecurities, let me tell you, YOU ARE WRONG.
Classy women tend to hide their insecure thoughts and act confident because, believe it or not. It makes people respect them more. Acting confidently and elegantly is the best way to avoid being looked down on or taken advantage of.
It’s not about putting on an act or being someone you’re not. It’s about knowing that you are not less than anyone. You may not be the prettiest, tallest, or thinnest, but you might be the smartest, have some sort of secret talent, be sporty, be a good cook, and have many other wonderful traits.
Believe it or not, being confident is key for people to treat you better and hear what you are saying. You can’t forget how you see and think of yourself is what you transmit to others.
Confidence’s important to make decisions, earn a place wherever you go, and live peacefully.
3- Knows when a person is lying
Almost every woman has a sixth sense, and that is to know when someone is lying to her.
Classy women are often very observant. They know when they are hearing total crap.
Honestly, if you have known a person for some years, it’s very easy to know when they’re lying. However, a smart, elegant woman tends to analyze a lot. She links the loose ends to find out if a person tells the truth. The more people say, the more you know if they are telling the truth.
Some of the reasons why an elegant woman can detect a lie very easily can lead us to another secret:
4-She doesn’t always say what she thinks since she doesn’t trust very easily
A classy woman is calculated. She doesn’t say everything she thinks and therefore doesn’t believe everything she hears.
It’s not about having trust issues but about not being too naive. People lie or tend to twist the truth. We’re humans; we’ve done it.
Sophisticated women know who to be more open with and who to listen to more than tell.
5- Works in silence
Classy women get a lot of things done, but they won’t tell you all about it. The best way to reach your goals quicker it’s to work hard, be smart, and be consistent. All of that without bragging about it.
She knows that it’s better to show the results and achievements than to show how hard her way to the top was.
An elegant woman struggles and tries to be better, but you won’t see her doing that.
Envy it’s a feeling that appears when you least expect it. To protect your vibes and environment, it’s better to do what you are going to without saying too much about it, especially if you’re doing something out of the box.
People want you to be better but not better than them.
6- Always has a plan B and C
A sophisticated woman is Always prepared for the unexpected.
She has a main plan, but if, for some reason, that plan doesn’t work, she knows exactly what to do next.
Her mind works every possible scenario: If this doesn’t work, I’ll do that; if that doesn’t work, then I’ll try this, and so on.
When making a plan, she thinks of all the potential results and consequences to have a little tranquility and not get disappointed that easily.
7- She is hard to give up.
Elegant women are where they are because of their consistency and commitment. They won’t give up on the first failure, of that you can be sure.
They will try and work their ass off to achieve their goals. Quitting is simply not an option. There is a stronger belief that if you are persistent enough on one thing, the universe, god, or whatever you believe in will eventually give it to you.
That’s why most sophisticated women don’t show their failures because they don’t think about them. They’re too busy trying again.
Keeping trying requires a lot of will and emotional control, which leads us to another secret:
8- She doesn’t let emotions get in their way
Elegant women are emotionally strong. They are fully focused and don’t let emotions get in the way of her day by day.
She is not emotionless. She just knows when not to let their emotions interfere with what’s going on.
Classy women often think and act without thinking too much about feelings. It’s all about control.
However, we’re all humans and lose control of our emotions constantly. Elegant women just know how not to lose it that often, a skill that they may have learned from experience (with lots of practice).
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